Nash has torticollis. Something is causing his head to tilt one way while his chin points in the opposite direction. In newborns, this is normally caused by some muscular problem. His pediatrician, however, didn't find a problem with his neck muscles. Other less common forms of torticollis exist. One form happens when one of the vertebrae doesn't develop completely. Another is a serious condition that can come on anytime after birth and is usually an indication of a more serious problem, such as a brain or spinal cord tumor. Sometimes torticollis is caused by a simple vision problem. (Can you tell that I've been reading too much on the Internet?) We are going to the pediatric neurologist this afternoon to try and find out what is causing his torticollis. He's also got some positional plagiocephally (asymetric head) from the torticollis. Please be in prayer that we'll find out what is causing the torticollis and that the treatment for it will be simple. Also, please pray that we won't worry or be anxious about the possibilities. I'll update you all with whatever we find out.Nash's Dr. Appt.
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Nash has torticollis. Something is causing his head to tilt one way while his chin points in the opposite direction. In newborns, this is normally caused by some muscular problem. His pediatrician, however, didn't find a problem with his neck muscles. Other less common forms of torticollis exist. One form happens when one of the vertebrae doesn't develop completely. Another is a serious condition that can come on anytime after birth and is usually an indication of a more serious problem, such as a brain or spinal cord tumor. Sometimes torticollis is caused by a simple vision problem. (Can you tell that I've been reading too much on the Internet?) We are going to the pediatric neurologist this afternoon to try and find out what is causing his torticollis. He's also got some positional plagiocephally (asymetric head) from the torticollis. Please be in prayer that we'll find out what is causing the torticollis and that the treatment for it will be simple. Also, please pray that we won't worry or be anxious about the possibilities. I'll update you all with whatever we find out.Posted by Laura at Tuesday, June 24, 2008 1 comments
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Living Hope Church Picnic
Monday, June 23, 2008
We had a great time at our church picnic on Sunday. We enjoyed eating and hanging out with our friends. Shea and her buddies had fun blowing bubbles, and they were thrilled to head over to the sprinkler park. Joey (aka The Ice Cream Man) bought everyone popsicles.





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Shea and Her Doll
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Wish I had the time . . .
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
I'm a thinker. I like to wrestle with things, analyze theories and ideas, discuss/argue, etc. Now that I do that for my job, I seem to do that with seemingly insignigicant things. To clarify, I argue about whether someone is a healthcare surrogate, whether that arbitration agreement is enforceable, whether that nursing home killed someone, etc. Those can be important things and are very significant to the people whose lives they affect. I think that what I do is important and does impact people's lives, for the better I hope. However, I long to wrestle with things that have more of an eternal value. By the end of the day, my mind is tired. I don't have the energy to really think about much of anything. I just want to get through the meal prepping, diaper changing, lunch packing, feeding, bathing, bottle prep, pump cleaning, dish cleaning, clothes washing, folding, etc. that greets me at home each evening. By the time that's over, I'm ready to crash. Before I know it, I'm up the next day endeavoring to get out the door and to work on time. The daily grind begins again.
Posted by Laura at Tuesday, June 17, 2008 1 comments
Happy Father's Day!
Monday, June 16, 2008
Jon is such an awesome dad. We had a great time celebrating him. As wonderful as he is, he's not real great at waiting to open gifts. Consequently, I let him have his present on Saturday night, which worked out really great anyway. We had a fun-filled evening playing rock band. Shea loves to use "her" drumsticks to play "her" drums. As you can see from the pictures, Jon had a great time singing. On Sunday, we went to church. We were on time for the first time in a long time. Yeah! Shea made Jon a fabulous tie, which he wore for pictures and even out to Osaka for lunch. Jon also got to dress his son for Father's Day. Can you guess what he wore? A USC onesie. Surprise, surprise.



Posted by Laura at Monday, June 16, 2008 3 comments
Water Play
Sunday, June 15, 2008

We had a great time playing in water this weekend. Shea loves the water and is pretty fearless. On Friday night, we went to the sprinkler park with some friends from church. Frank and Leigh Ann were in town house-hunting and stopped by to say hello. It was great to see them. I'm so glad that they're moving back to Memphis. On Saturday, we had a surprise birthday pool party for Zach. Shea was not afraid of the water and loved sliding into the pool (which made me a little nervous).

Left: Shea at the sprinkler park.
Right: Jon, Shea, Maribeth, and Josh

Left: Joey swinging Ella and Shea around. They loved it and didn't want to stop!
Right: Leigh Ann holding Nash

Left: Emily and Evy. We're sad that they'll be moving soon! :(
Right: Emily, Taylor, Austin, and Carter


Left: Shea loved the slide.
Middle and Right: Shea playing w/ her Daddy in the pool.

Left: Ella got stuck at the top of the slide, but every time Joey tried to help her, she sprayed him with the hose. It was pretty funny.
Right: Fun in the pool!
Posted by Laura at Sunday, June 15, 2008 2 comments
Nash looks like me too!
Thursday, June 12, 2008
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My Daughter is a Monkey
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
My family has some weird obsession with monkeys. It all started with my dad. He'd tease us by calling us monkeys when we were growing up, and we'd tease back calling him either a monkey or a gorilla. Trips to the zoo were always full of jokes about how dad adopted us from the monkeys there, how we were going so Michael could visit his biological family, etc. Also, for any special occasion, we can expect to receive at least one monkey card from someone in our family. It's great fun to see who can find the best one. Furthermore, on birthdays, someone in my family is guaranteed to sing the monkey version of "Happy Birthday." My brother has even received a monkey lamp as a gift. It's just some silliness that the Shea family indulges in.
Well, the other day, my daughter lived up to her name as a Shea. My dad was playing with her and asked if she was a tiger. "No, not a tiger. I a monkey!" Shea exclaimed. My dad almost rolled on the floor with laughter. It was a priceless Shea family moment.
Posted by Laura at Wednesday, June 11, 2008 0 comments
Get Back!
Shea has some great taste in music. She likes the Beatles, especially their song "Get Back." She sings along to it in the car. She'll sing the chorus:
Get back, get back.
Get back to where you once belonged.
Get back, get back.
Get back to where you once belonged.
Get back Jojo. Go home.
Get back, get back.
Back to where you once belonged.
Get back, get back.
Back to where you once belonged.
Get back Jo.
Posted by Laura at Wednesday, June 11, 2008 2 comments
More Reasons that I Am Not a Morning Person
Monday, June 9, 2008
I hope everyone gets a kick out of what goes on at my house in the morning. There's always some sort of craziness in the Owings' house. This morning was no exception.
We went to Atlanta for the weekend, and we got home at about 7:30 p.m. Sunday night. Jon unloaded the car and told me that he had brough everything into the house. I was completely exhausted and finally got to sleep around 10:00 p.m. I overslept a little bit (like an hour), so the morning was super rushed. At some point during the morning, I checked my purse to make sure that my car keys are in it, and they were. I was running late, and I looked around for my makeup bag to do my makeup. I couldn't find it anywhere. I tore up the house looking for it, but it was nowhere to be found. I called Jon and asked where he put it. Apparently, he hadn't completely unloaded the car. My makeup was still in his car 45 minutes away in Collierville. Just great. No makeup today.
It was then time to get out the door. I wanted to change Nash's diaper before putting him in his car seat. I got him all ready, and then I heard him fill it up again. Great. I changed another diaper. While I'm changing this one, he pooped some more. Just what I needed! I finally get him ready to go. Meanwhile, Shea had climbed back in her bed and didn't want to leave. It took some coaxing to get her down and out the door.
We were finally walking out the door about 15 minutes behind schedule. I was lugging Shea's backpack, Nash's diaper bag, a grocery bag w/ Shea's sheets and blanket for daycare, my purse, and Nash in his car seat while Shea walks ahead of us. We got to the car, and I looked in my purse for my keys. Umm, they're not in there. I put everything down and frantically searched for them. No such luck. After re-searching a few more times, I realized they really weren't in my purse. At least I remembered my cell phone. Now, my next-door-neighbors had taken care of Leia (our dog) while we were out of town, and they had a key. I didn't see a car in the driveway, and they didn't answer they're home phone. No problem. I though, "Valerie lives a block away and she has a key." No answer. I called my neighbor's cell phone, and she said her daughter was home asleep and that she'd call, wake her up, and get her to walk the key over. I wait a few more minutes. Then, I saw Valerie's car driving down the street. I called her again. Thank goodness that she answered the phone! She had may house key with her, so she turns around to come let me in. She watched my kids in the yard while I run in to get my keys. I, however, could not find them anywhere.
I had to go get my kids and bring them back inside so Valerie could get to work (and tell everyone why I'll be late). I turned the house upside down looking for my keys. I called Jon asking him where they are and made him check to see if he'd accidentally picked them up. At the same time, Nash was screaming because he's still in his car seat. I heard Shea say uh-oh, and I turned around to see her standing in the living room in a puddle of pee. I was about ready to pull my hair out. I took her to the bathroom to clean her up, and low and behold, there are my keys! They were in the bathroom. I'm not sure how they got there, but I suspect Shea may have had something to do with it.
I finally got us all out the door and got to work almost an hour late. Then, I didn't have my "fob" to get in the door, so I had to go up front to get the receptionist to let my into my office. What a morning! I think that sometime soon I'll be able to laugh about it.
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Nancy's Wedding
Sunday, June 8, 2008

We had a great time in Atlanta at my cousin's wedding. Here's a rare picture of my whole family together.
From left to right: Shea, Jon, Nash, Laura, Emma, Michael, Sara, Patrick, Bess, Mom, and Dad
My grandmother got to meet Nash. Shea and Emma enjoyed patting him on the head.
Shea and her cousins, Emma and Bess, were crazy as usual.

Michael and Patrick were their normal selves. Jon and I were tired, but we still had a good time.

Posted by Laura at Sunday, June 08, 2008 0 comments
NKOTB!!!
Friday, June 6, 2008
I have a confession: I am a HUGE New Kids On the Block fan! When I was in 4th and 5th grade, I was in love with Jordan Knight. I was crazy about New Kids. I even had a NKOTB lunch box. Well, the big news is that they're back together for a reunion tour. I'm so sad that they're not coming to Memphis. I think the closest that they'll be is St. Louis or Atlanta. I would LOVE to see them in concert. Here's their website for anyone who's interested:
http://nkotb.com/
You know, I'm not the only NKOTB fan in my family. Michael used to really enjoy dancing to their music. We have some great home video of Michael dancing to "Step by Step." In this video, Michael is about 7 years old, and he's singing and dancing around having a good old time. Patrick (4 years old), however, begins pestering Michael, but Michael completely ignores Patrick while continuing to dance and sing along with the New Kids. Well, Patrick will not be ignored and continues trying to get Michael's attention. The next thing you know, one of Michael's dance moves ends with his elbow accidentally in Patrick's face. Ouch! Michael, of course, continues like nothing happened, but Patrick is crying and walks up to one of my parents wailing, "Michael hit me in the face--on purpose!" It's great that we have video documentation that it was, in fact, accidental and mostly Patrick's fault. I need to get that video, edit me out of it, and upload it. :) It's a classic Shea family moment.
Posted by Laura at Friday, June 06, 2008 3 comments
Weekends
Thursday, June 5, 2008
I'm not very good at resting and relaxing. I think possibly my ADD/ADHD makes it really hard for me to enjoy any down time. I get bored if life isn't a little bit crazy. My husband, however, really likes to relax. We first had problems with our opposite tendencies when we were planning our honeymoon. I wanted to go somewhere "historical" where we could do lots of stuff, and Jon just wanted to go somewhere and lay on the beach all day. We compromised and went to Charleston, SC. We saw lots of cool things and spent some time at the beach on Kiawah Island. It was great.
Now that I'm older and wiser, and occasionally medicated, I've learned to see some value in down time. However, not much value. I'm really just a glutton for punishment. My cousin is getting married in Atlanta this weekend, and we've decided at the last minute to go. We'll be leaving Memphis at 4am Saturday morning, attending the 5:30 p.m. wedding on Saturday evening, and then driving back to Memphis on Sunday. We have to get back in town in time for Clay's graduation celebration dinner at Red Robin at 5:00 p.m. Sunday night. We don't want to miss that! Yikes! We are really nuts.
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Not a Morning Person
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
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Fear and Idols
Monday, June 2, 2008
I'm hesitant to post this after dealing with my motivational issue, but I'm going to go ahead and post it anyway.
Yesterday in church, JR said something in his sermon that really convicted me. He basically said that if we're not a little bit afraid, then we're not being dependent on God. I know that depending on God means that life may not go the way that I want it to. He may ask me to give up everything. I was okay with that for many years. Then, I had children. While there were many things in my life that I would have been upset to lose, nothing would upset me more than losing my children. In my previous post, I blamed my lack of spending time with God on my busy life. That's only partly true. I think that I'm afraid of totally depending on God because I know that he may take me down a path that I really don't want to go down. It pretty much boils down to this: I'm treasuring my children more than I'm treasuring God. I don't think there's an easy fix to this. I hope and pray that God will change my heart so that I no longer make my children idols in my life.
These thoughts remind me of one of my favorite excerpts from The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis:
[Lucy asks,] "Is Aslan quite safe? I shall feel rather nervous about meeting a lion."
"That you will dearie, and no mistake," said Mrs. Beaver. "If there's anyone who can appear before Aslan without their knees knocking, they're either braver than most or just plain silly."
"Then he isn't safe?" said Lucy.
"Safe?" said Mr. Beaver; "don't you hear what Mrs. Beaver tells you? Who said anything about safe? Of course he isn't safe. But he's good. He's the King, I tell you."
In another exerpt from C.S. Lewis' The Silver Chair, Jill is very thirty, but Aslan is standing by the water:
"Will you promise not to do anything to me, if I do come?" said Jill.
"I make no promise," said the Lion...
"Do you eat girls?" she asked.
"I have swallowed up girls and boys, women and men, kings and emperors, cities and realms," said the Lion. It didn't say this as if it were boasting, nor as if it were sorry, nor as if it were angry. It just said it.
"I dare not come and drink," said Jill.
"Then you will die of thirst," said the Lion.
"Oh dear!" said Jill, coming another step nearer. "I suppose I must go and look for another stream then."
"There is no other stream," said the Lion.
Basically, we all have two choices. Submit to the God who is in control but not safe or die of thirst. Following God isn't safe, but I must stop idolizing my children and follow him because I am so thirsty.
Posted by Laura at Monday, June 02, 2008 1 comments
Rotten
From time to time I read other people's blogs. Some posts give me family updates or make me laugh. Other posts are really clever, and some really minister to me spiritually and cause me to think. I'm normally very impressed with the people who post such spiritual and thought-provoking insights. I say all that to let you know that since beginning a blog, I've actually had the thought that I need to spend some time in the Word so that I can post some cool spiritual insight that will impress people. You see, I'm adjusting to juggling my two kids, my husband (or kid #3), a full-time job, extended family, and a busy social calendar. I haven't handled all this as well as I should, and my time with God has been lacking. I did, however, experience the motivation to spend some time with him just so that I could have something clever to post. How rotten am I? I'm sure that no one else has ever wanted to post something just to impress other people. Well, maybe someone has. Anyhow, it's just one more thing that reveals to me how fallen I am and how much I need God to continue changing my heart. I hope that I will experience God's work in my life and be able to share about it, but I hope my motivation for sharing will ultimately glorify God and not myself.
Posted by Laura at Monday, June 02, 2008 0 comments
Crazy Crazy Crazy
Friday, May 30, 2008
I never knew how much trouble it would be to celebrate my anniversary with my husband. I thought that our wedding wasn't at a particularly busy time of year, but I feel like I'm even busier this month than I am at Christmas time. Jon and I were married on May 31, 2002. May 31 is this Saturday, and I have a baby shower to attend during the day, a couple's shower to attend in the evening, and a birthday party that night. On Sunday, after church we have the option of ultimate frisbee at Johnson park or the sprinkler park in Collierville. What a crazy weekend! That just leaves Friday night for us to go out (because, of course, we can't miss any of the excitement with our friends this weekend). Going out Friday night requires me leaving work early to get everything ready to leave the kids for an evening. So much trouble for one date! Yikes! It will be worth it to spend one evening with my wonderful husband whom I'm blessed to have been married to for six years.
Posted by Laura at Friday, May 30, 2008 3 comments
Sexism and Politics
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
I read an article today that really made me think.
While the article had some incredibly compelling points regarding women's suffrage and political leanings, I don't think it really addressed whether there's really a bias against women in politics. While he addressed a number of issues, his argument boiled down to the fact that over 50% of voters in the U.S. are female, so there's no discrimination against women in politics. The author, a man, failed to appreciate, however, that many women are also sexist.Is There Really a Bias Against Women in Politics?
Are women really discriminated against in politics? Sen. Hillary Clinton surely thinks so. But history suggests otherwise.Indeed, she believes this year's presidential campaign has shown that sexism limits women's influence in politics. She claimed last week that "every poll I've seen shows more people would be reluctant to vote for a woman [than] to vote for an African American."
It's possible that Democrats are particularly sexist, but with women making up the majority of voters, one would think that politicians were ignoring women at their own peril.
In 2004, women made up 54 percent of voters. At least through early February of this year, women made up a much greater share of Democrat primary voters — accounting for between 57 and 61 percent of the vote in primaries and caucuses.
But whatever difficulties Clinton might be having, it seems that the policies adopted are much more important than who puts them into action, and the evidence indicates that women have long gotten their way. . . .Read more here.
Until recently, I've never experienced career-related adversity because of my sex. The fact that I was female didn't matter in my education. I didn't feel that my sex mattered in my short stint in the corporate world. In my current job, nevertheless, my sex has really mattered, not to my employer or supervisors, but to my clients. As a plaintiff's attorney, I represent individuals, and a surprising number of individuals are sexist. I never dreamed that I'd actually have a client refuse to permit me or another female attorney defend him during a deposition. He would only permit the male attorney (who has half as much experience as the other female attorney I work with) defend him because he didn't think that a woman could do as good of a job. I've encountered a client who was unhappy with her offer from the insurance company and wanted her case transferred to a man because she thought a man could get her a better offer. That's just the tip of the iceberg. These people, both men and women, for some reason think that a man will better represent them in their lawsuits. These people are also voters. I imagine that if they don't want a female attorney, they won't vote for a female politician.
In my limited experience as an attorney, I've learned that sexism is alive and well. Further, it is not just men who are sexist, women do not trust their own sex to represent their interests well. For some reason, these women think that a man can do a better job in the legal, political, and business world than a woman can. Perhaps we all are a little sexist. How many of us think that a man can run a household or clean as well as a woman can? What sexist tendencies do we all harbor without even realizing it?
Posted by Laura at Wednesday, May 28, 2008 0 comments
Shea is pretty.
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